Ok, they are supposed to, but they haven’t.
My hubs and I, well, we haven’t gone “bump in the night” in two years.
It is what brachytherapy does. It mangles you as a woman.
Not to mention the whole lack of sexual desire that accompanies a hysterectomy.
And the trauma of cancer.
Living with your mother will screw with your intamacy levels too.
I feel bad. I shouldn’t. I can’t help it. I have been traunatized both physically and mentally thanks to cancer.
But there is always the sadness that you aren’t providing your partner with a basic need that comes with a happy, healthy marriage.
I am trying to work through this.
But it sucks.